Thursday, September 20, 2007

Woke up at 10 something, took a nice bath n studied a little bit then went for lunch. Today had law class only, Mr Reynolds our lecturer one of the man i respect most. His jokes are lame but at least he tries to cheer us up during our lessons. Today he changed his style of teaching saying it was UK style, students jus listen and need not take down any notes. It was relaxing but made my mind wonder off somewhere lolz.. Got my paper 4 mock exam. Expected it was very bad cos my answer was totally out of the question. Sir said it was expected from the students because he didnt teach us dis topic before so its for us to learn from the mistakes. Todays lesson was about Vicarious Liability where a person who commits the tort will be not be liable but another party who is an employer will be vicariously liable. Suddenly he came up with Jasmines Florist which i forgot why he said it, he was explaining the French men were known to be romantic while the Malaysian style would be girls asking the guys to buy flowers for them lolz. That i agree but not all men are considered that "category" la haha.

After class followed Jess to Ch`s room cos she wanted to download Evans Almighty. Yay movie to watch :p Then we had some photos taken by Edna and had some mooncake which tasted nice. Last night my bf came back late.. don know what time. Hmm wonder how did the discussion went about. Well i`ll be cooking porridge later for dinner wanted to eat some homecooked food. Tonight will be reading Business.

I have something to share which is very interesting for girls to find out about guys behaviour which is an art that I need to master lolz.. During an argument or disagreement about certain topics girls usually use the wrong approach. I`m one of them hehe..

- If you are a woman, a practical rule when discussing a topic is that if you want to debate, prove or compete with your boyfriend then stay in that role throughout the discussion. If you want to be understood or nurtured, then relate to him by sharing how you feel about the subject.
- Don't switch to becoming a soft, feeling and vulnerable woman after you have presented yourself logically. All that will do is encourage him not to discuss things with you in the future. He'll be afraid of you dropping the feelings bomb.

- Most of the time I would suggest that you start off softly by speaking to him about how you feel concerning the issue so he can recognize your feelings which will signal to him that you are not trying to be competitive.
-On the occasions you do need to prove your point, hold your ground regardless of how you feel. Remember it doesn't matter as much which way you relate to him, the most important thing you can do is not to combine the two.


Guys are soft creatures whose feelings need to be taken care of too. so girls be gentle. Tomorrow no class.. Wee... Im missing my family now.. Sis is studying very hard for her finals. I know she's smarter than me and tougher to impress too lolz.. Anyhow she`s someone who have a soft spot inside. Love ya gal.

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